The new home has the love of the wife and the babbling voice of the children - Photo: Q. DINH
Some people think that because my family has many children, my parents do not pressure or urge me to get married and have children. But my parents know that their son still has many big ambitions, his future plans are not yet fulfilled, and he wants to be free to choose. Getting married and having children is not my top priority at this time.
Especially when I have just completed a 10-year journey of acquiring more knowledge at universities in my favorite field. I understand myself better than anyone else. And also clearly realize my responsibility to my family when my parents are entering their golden age.
Although I am not married yet, I have been fortunate to have come into contact with many situations and marriages with many flavors. Some people, after having children, find that their relationship is no longer happy, so they break up in a civilized and silent manner.
But there are also people who, after divorce, always insult each other, use social networks as a means to attack each other, forgetting all the promises of being together forever.
Such marriages more or less make an unmarried person like me a bit bored. But I do not lose faith in happiness and marriage.
I still believe that getting married will help increase our happiness index. At least when a man has a wife and children, he will find a comfortable home to return to after work.
For a single person like me, no matter how big or small the space is, it's still just a home. And a home has a kitchen, so how can it be called a warm kitchen?
The house is only filled with the bustling melody when the TV or the record player is turned on, but there is no sound of love from the wife or the babbling of the children. And the house does not always have someone waiting, waiting for dinner or simply a text message "Remember to come home for dinner". That is how a warm home is!
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